Thankful Thoughts...

What surprised me this week?

Tuesday morning we awoke to a snowstorm. On rare occasions in the winter, I'll look outside the window and see a swarm of birds perched in our trees.

Usually they are robins dressed in their cherry-red finery, but there are often little finches among the congregation as well.  Tuesday, with the snow coming down, the birds started to gather. I stood at my second-story bedroom window looking out at the branches of our tree just outside the window. As I looked I noticed one bird, just a few feet from the window pane, that seemed totally out of place amongst all the fat red robins. It looked like a yellow cardinal, with a bright yellow body and a little tuft on its head.

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It was gorgeous. As I stood looking at it, it cocked his head and stared back. This sunshiny yellow bird made me smile, and I as I admired it I had a feeling of hope and happiness wash over me. I've done a little research and apparently this bird is extremely rare. I believe it was sent to me on this cold wintery day as a sign of hope and good things to come. I'm grateful.

Thankful Thoughts...

What inspired me this week?

I flew to California this last week to visit family. Our family has been traveling a rough road lately. My brother, who sustained terrible injuries in a fall 2 1/2 weeks ago, is finally showing some signs of improvement, but I was at a low ebb when I reached out to a friend of mine in the middle of the week. She sent back an encouraging email that soothed me and calmed my anxieties. In it she quoted some scriptures that helped me remember my faith and beliefs. Faith can be a fragile thing when you're in the thick of it. Sometimes fear replaces faith, and you start to despair. Chris reminded me of the beliefs that I hold dear by pointing me toward the scriptures. They inspired me and gave me hope. I'm so grateful for sacred writings and faith-filled friends. 

For those interested, here's the list of the scriptures that Chris sent: 

1 Peter 5:7

Jeremiah 33:3

Luke 1:37

Psalm 118: 5-6, 8-9

Psalm 31:24

Isaiah 65:24

Hebrews 4:14-16

Philippians 4:6-9

What surprised me this week?

I have found that when difficult situations surround us they are often balanced by obvious blessings. This heavenly assistance is referred to as a "tender mercy" in the scriptures. The challenge is to recognize this aid and relief for what it is, rather than discard it as a mere coincidence. For me, tender mercies are evidence that the Savior is mindful of me and my family and that He loves us. This week I was surprised by the number of those sweet assurances and blessings. Here are a few examples of the tender mercies that our family experienced this week:

• I made my plane reservations a couple of months ago to fly to California -- never realizing that my brother would be involved in an accident. I was so grateful to be able to be there to {hopefully} lift and support my family.
• Several of our family members received the good news of a wonderful summer internship, a sought-after residency, and a well-deserved promotion this week. 
• My husband and I were asked to attend a Young Single Adult Ward (congregation) as "ward missionaries." So excited!  
• My mother's helper was ill this week. Fortunately, her illness coincided with my visit, which was a blessing because she didn't feel pressed to come to work and my mother still had the help she desired.
• Today our part of Colorado received a much needed snowstorm! 
• The announcement that a new little one is expected in our family. ;o) {Time to start sewing again!}

 

Thankful Thoughts...

What moved me this week?

I expect family to pull together in emergencies, but it warms my heart all the same. My favorite expression of this is when loved ones unite in prayer for a common blessing. The last couple of years our family has become more and more acquainted with this experience. Collectively we've petitioned the Lord much on behalf of different family members in need. I've grown to appreciate -- even more -- the power of prayer and the strength and positive influence one can feel through the Spirit from the prayers of others. I'm grateful that members of our family understand this gospel principle and take advantage of this blessing daily.

This week I was moved by the prayers of strangers. When my mother's LDS bishop (leader of their congregation) heard the news that my brother had been in an accident, he called my mother and asked permission to go visit him in the hospital. My brother doesn't live within the boundaries of this bishop's congregation, however, this good man took it upon himself to travel some distance to visit and bestow a priesthood blessing on my brother. I'm grateful. In another instance a good friend of my mother's, who had never met my brother, felt prompted to visit him in the hospital. While there she prayed for him, his family and all those attending him. It was obvious to those present that her prayer calmed and comforted my brother. Again, I'm grateful. 

What surprised me this week? 

We got the surprising news this week that my daughter and her husband sold their current home and bought a new home. All this was great news, except for the fact that they will be homeless for about 2 1/2 months between the time they move out of their current dwelling and close on their new one. What will they do during that two month period? Move in with us of course! Never mind that they live 500 miles away. They will have the opportunity to have an extended vacation in the Rocky Mountains, and we'll have the opportunity to be around our grandkids 24/7! It's a win/win situation. They even worked it out so that my son-in-law will be able to work from our home every other week. My husband and I are busy plotting and planning all the fun we'll have while they're here!

 

Thankful Thoughts...

What inspired me this week?

Have you seen the movie "Impossible"? It's the story of one family's experience during the 2004 Tsunami in Southeast Asia. We went to see it yesterday. I thought it would be a somewhat sanitized adventure movie about this difficult time. (Sometimes I can be ridiculously naive and shallow.) "Impossible" showed both the horrors and grace that people suffered and experienced during that terrible Tsunami. With the passage of time I had forgotten the magnitude of this horrible disaster. "Impossible" reminded me and made my heart ached for the people who were caught up in this catastrophe. At the same time, I was inspired by this family's story and their tenacious spirit. I wish, however, that the producers would have touched on the spiritual side of recovery. I kept wanting all the characters in the movie to turn to Him to receive the comfort that they so desperately needed. 

Sometime in the middle of the movie, after watching the characters go through horrific physical and emotional anguish, I thought back on the petty things I'd concerned myself with this last week. I struggle with putting things into proper perspective on a daily basis, and I often need a reminder about what is truly important in life. This movie was a compelling reminder. While sitting in the theater I promised myself (once again) to not let trivial matters consume my thoughts and rule my actions.

What surprised me this week?

I teach the 11 years olds at our church. There are twelve of them and usually eleven are in attendance.They are a spirited and lively bunch, and although I've been teaching them for only a month I love each one of them already. In addition to the shear size of the class, there are additional challenges associated with this group, but today I felt like we really clicked. It was such a nice surprise.

Thankful Thursday...

It's been awhile since I've done a "Thankful Thursday" posts. Need to get back on the bandwagon...

What moved me this week?

This week I sold a cupcake tote to a woman named Sarah. She requested that I mail the tote to her niece. Sarah also asked that I include this note. "Happy Birthday C---! Even though we are far apart, we think of you often, and we love you so much! Love..." Such simple words, but they had an effect upon me when I read them. What a fortunate little girl to have an aunt who cares enough to remember her birthday and demonstrate her love so sweetly. Simple words, simply said have the power to move.

What surprised me this week?

I love Pottery Barn, but I rarely buy anything there. I've found in most cases if I wait a month or two that other, less expensive, stores will have a look alike item at less than half the price. However, every once and awhile I find a little something that catches my eye and holds it. PB has for sale a set of seven keys that prices each key under $3 a piece. That's a pretty sweet little surprise. Running through my mind is about a hundred ways to use them in my home...

What inspired me this week?

I've been thinking a lot about "accomplishing goals" and "achieving dreams" lately. Watching the Olympics probably has a lot to do with this stream of thought. Certainly the athletes and their stories are captivating and inspiring, but there is another who has inspired me even more. When my husband was 18 years old, he started the necessary preparations to gain a private pilot's license. He acquired enough hours at that time to solo, but in spite of his desire to do so, he was never able to finish the hours required to obtain his license. College, work, seven children, a demanding wife and a home mortgage booted that aspiration right out the door for a good long time. In May he began flying again, and last Monday he received his license. His patience and persistence in achieving this life-long dream motivates me to follow my own dreams. After receiving his license that day we were talking, and he mentioned that he was especially glad he met this goal in the "right order." He was referring to the fact that he had put the goal of pursing his pilot's license on hold for 30 years, so he could persist at the more important goal of spending time with and taking care of our family. His love and care for me and our children inspires me.

Thankful Thursday

Usually for my Thankful Thursday posts, I answer the following questions in regard to what surprised me, moved me, and inspired me on a weekly basis. However, because it's the end of the year and I'm feeling a bit reflective I'm going to answer these questions with a larger perspective in mind.

What surprised me this year?

Our family grew by leaps and bounds in 2009. We added three more individuals to our ranks -- two grandchildren and one son-in-law. What always surprises me in these instances is how quickly each individual assimilates into the family and how natural each addition feels. (I don't very often post photos of my family, but here's the latest photo of our expanding family taken in August at my daughter's wedding...)

What inspired me this year?

I have received inspiration through many sources over the years, but I think what makes this year different in that regard is the inspiration I've received from my many blogging friends. It's a wonderful thing when authors of blogs can exchange ideas, establish resources, fire imaginations and create thoughtful, thought-provoking exchanges with those who would normally be outside their sphere of influence. My blogging friends have inspired me often this year!

What moved me this year?

There are several references in the scriptures to the "tender mercies of the Lord." I have come to realize that these "tender mercies" are the very personal and individualized blessings and ministrations which we receive from and through the Savior. Some are poignant and obvious blessings of protection or healing, while others come in a more subtle, quiet form as inspiration, support or confirmation. More often than not these heavenly mercies arrive when I least expect such an affirmation, so the impulse is to label them as mere coincidence or luck or good fortune. When I do recognize the source of these ministrations, I realize how wonderful it feels to be blessed, watched over, supported, and protected by Him, and I realize, once again, that He is mindful of me and aware of my needs. And I feel loved. I am moved by the many tender mercies my family has received this year.

Wishing you all a very Happy New Year!

Be Still...

I love Christmastime. I look forward to the purchasing of presents, the decorations, Christmas trees, delicious sweets, parties, and all the merriment that this season has to offer. Although these things can be beautiful, sometimes I allow these festivities to clutter my mind and compete for my attention and the true meaning of Christmas gets buried beneath the glitter and the glam.
And I almost forget. What should be a holy season filled with peace and love, goodness and service, gratitude and remembrance, worship and reflection becomes a hectic scramble of presents and decorations that almost eclipses the real meaning of our celebration. Almost. Fortunately, in still, quiet moments clarity prevails and I catch a glimpse of the Christ child. No wonder He said, "Be still, and know that I am God." In stillness comes understanding, inspiration and peace. This morning I watched this video. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did...



(This video is produced by The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and is entitled "The Nativity," but the audio has been removed and replaced with a recording of Amy Grant's "Breathe of Heaven.")

Thankful Thursday...

What surprised me this week?

This week I received so many kind, thoughtful comments of encouragement on my blog. We all feel this way, so I know you'll understand it when I say that it both surprised and delighted me. Thank you so much for taking a little time to respond to one or more of my posts. It was appreciated.

What inspired me this week?

I hope I can verbalize these feelings adequately... For several weeks now I have been inspired by those who can take items of seemingly little worth or value and transform these pieces into objects of beauty. I've been captivated by many individuals on blogs who have truly learned the art of taking a worn, useless object and altering it to become serviceable and something of merit. Their abilities to create, repurpose, and reuse are inspiring.

As I was contemplating these projects the other day, I was given a little insight into another application of the principle of "repurposing." At the time I was reading the Bible detailing Christ's life and ministry. I was led to recognize Jesus' innate ability to acknowledge and show concern for those individuals of seemingly little worth or value in society. In most cases, through his ministrations, those individuals were changed and their lives repurposed. Because Jesus acknowledged their individual worth in his eyes, by demonstrating faith they became someone of value in their own eyes. Thus, they were able to repurpose and change their lives. Miraculous transformations, to be sure. Christ's life and teachings transformed many who witnessed him. I am grateful and inspired by His ability and willingness to transform me and my life.

What moved me this week?

This quick message moved me this week. It's a wonderful reminder of the potential and desire we all have to create...

Thankful Thursday

What surprised me this week?

I've been on the receiving end of a lot of kindness and attention lately. My foot is eons better now and mending perfectly, and it feels good to be getting back to normal. This last week a number of people in our area have come down with the flu. I had the opportunity to help a few of them. It surprised me how satisfying it felt to be once again on the giving end of service, rather than the receiving end.

What moved me this week?

Yesterday Colorado experienced a record early snowfall. It snowed most of the day and into the night. I received a phone call from a girlfriend last night. She was concerned about the snow on my driveway. She knew that I'd had foot surgery last month, and that it might be difficult for me to shovel it with a sore foot. You see, my usual form of snow removal -- my big, strapping hunk of a husband -- was out of town. This morning my friend's husband called to see if I needed any further help shoveling the snow. Good friends. They move me and bless my life.

What inspired me this week?

There have been many times in my life, when I had a thought or feeling come over me that was not my own. As a parent with children living at home, I often felt inspired to do or say something to help keep my children physically, emotionally or spiritually safe. Those feelings have come less often as my children have left home and started their own families. Today, however, I experienced again in a very real way the prompting, guidance, and instruction that only the Holy Ghost can provide with regard to the safety of my family. I am grateful for moments of clear understanding and inspiration.

Thankful Thursday

What surprised me this week?

My foot is recovering. I had a similar surgery two years ago on the other foot and the process was so much more painful and the recovery so much longer. It's a wonderful surprise to have this recovery go smoother. I'm so grateful!

What inspired me this week?

I have been inspired lately by those who can reuse, refurbish, refinish and recycle materials to meet their needs. I've visited a number of blogs trying to find out the best way to refinish the chair that I've been working on. I'm amazed and inspired by those who have the talent to take something that I would consider "junk" and change it to something beautiful and functional. (Here or here are two examples.) We live in such a disposable world. I know I've been guilty of that philosophy most of my life, but I'm beginning to realize the advantages of refurbishing an item to suit your needs. It a creative, inspiring attitude -- and I like it!

What moved me this week?

I wish I could live near my children. They are spread across the country from one coast to the other. My husband and I have seven children, five children-in-law, and seven grandchildren and if I had my way they would all live within a five mile area of my home. There's nothing I like better than spending time with family. The fact that I don't live close to them never makes me more anxious than when they are ill or in need. Oddly enough, that's the time that I miss being closest to them the most. What moves me and makes me feel grateful is when other people step in to help my children and their families when they are in need. I am so grateful for their support and kindnesses. Their service may come in the form of babysitting needed, an invite to dinner, a plate of chocolate chips cookies, an arm around a shoulder or an offer to bring in a meal. It moves me to see the service and sacrifice of others on behalf of my precious family.

Thankful Thursday...

What moved me this week?

When one is less ambulatory one starts to appreciate the little things in life -- like the ability to skip downstairs and get your own glass of water. Truly. It makes you grateful when you are well enough to make your own bed, or go to the grocery store, or (dare I say) do the laundry and dishes. Yup, even that. The ability to perform life's boring, routine, everyday tasks becomes a blessing in your life. I'm moved by life's little challenges and blessings.

What inspired me this week?

My family & good friends continue to inspire me. I love mine. I have received countless phone calls since my operation. These family members and friends are not only inquiring after the state of my foot but, more importantly, my state of mind. Let me clarify... A month after my husband and I were married (more than 30 years ago) we were having a quiet night at home. We were watching a TV program together, but every few minutes I would jump up from the couch to do one thing or another. A bit exasperated, but with a smile on his face, my husband finally said, "Can't you just relax. Do you always have to be doing something?" It stopped me dead in my tracks. I didn't realize how much of the "get 'er done" mindset I possessed until that moment. Since then I've learned the benefits of taking a break every now and then, but I believe I would still be classified as a "doer." Although I've acquired the skill of lounging around occasionally, I want it to be on my terms -- not a forced "vacation." My family and friends know me well enough to know that a "compulsory hiatus" (because of my operation) might be just the thing that throws me over the edge and into the sanitarium. Those close to me are fully aware that I need diversions during this time of rehab, and I appreciate their phone calls and visits more than I can say. They inspire me to try to discern how I can serve others more fully and better.

What surprised me this week?

Did you know? It's National Doughnut Month. King Soopers has declared it so. As a result King Soopers deserves my profound gratitude and appreciation, because for the month of October their doughnuts are on sale for $2.99 a dozen. And for those of us with smaller households, $1.50 for a half dozen. Could there be a better reason to celebrate!?! Excuse me, while I go have three one. Oh, how I love surprises ...

Thankful Thursday

What surprised me this week?

As some of you know, on Monday I had a foot operation. Throughout my life as I have had contact with medical professionals, I have come to the conclusion that these groups of people are a rare breed. Generally speaking -- they are so very kind and nurturing. The experience I had with the doctors and nurses that helped me on Monday was no exception to this rule. I truly appreciate the kindness and professional care I received before, during, and after my operation. I am always pleasantly surprised by the consideration and care of strangers.

What moved me this week?

Today my husband and I celebrate our 32nd wedding anniversary. I don't know where those years went. We still feel as if we are just "starting out." The last few days I've watched my husband as he has juggled work, housework, and me. He's been my go-to man when I've needed anything, because I have to stay off my foot for a time. I think there are many qualities that make a happy marriage, but I imagine service to one another is probably at the top of the list. I so appreciate the service he has performed for me with a smile on his face and a tender touch over the years. Even after 32 years, he still moves me.

What inspired me this week?

This week has been difficult for me, but it has been made so much easier by the good deeds I've experienced. From the doctors and nurses at the hospital, to my husband, children, friends and blogging friends who have all shown me compassion. I have appreciated phone calls, visits, notes, little gifts and tender loving care. Each of these instances inspires me to do better and serve others when they are in need.

Thankful Thursday

What surprised me this week?

We've all heard the phrase "timing is everything." That expression has been driven home to me these last few months. In the months of June, July and August I sold only two items from my Etsy shop. That seemed a little strange because the two months preceding June, I sold 26 items. You'd think come summer I would have been a little upset over this turn of events, but I was so relieved. You see, I really didn't have the time to devote to my Etsy shop this summer, because I was so busy with a variety of family obligations. The phrase "timing is everything" crossed my mind occasionally during that time, because I was so appreciative that my shop seemed on a customer-imposed hiatus! It wasn't until last week, that I got the bug to start sewing again, thus building my Etsy shop up a bit. Coincidentally, I've sold three items in the last two days. A surprising turn of events. Again the phrase "timing is everything" is playing on my mind. I'm very grateful.

What inspired me this week?

My mom often inspires me. She's quite a lady. Everyone who knows her says so. She's 86 years old and has the stamina and enthusiasm of someone 60 years younger -- seriously. Lately she says that she can feel herself slowing down. That makes me chuckle. I might be able to keep up with her now. This week she took one of her lady friends, and they drove up to San Francisco for a few days. They had a great time walking up and down the streets, shopping and eating at a few of the charming restaurants there. One night there was a fire-drill at the hotel she was staying at. She and her friend were on the top floor. They had to walk down 14 flights of stairs to get to the ground level and outside. She didn't even complain. She inspires me with her vitality and energy!

What moved me this week?

I was moved today as I watched my husband go out the door for his latest flying adventure. When he was 18 years old he started the necessary classes to gain a pilots license. He acquired enough hours at that time to solo, but in spite of his desire to do so, he was never able to finish the hours required to obtain his license. College, work, seven children and a demanding wife booted that aspiration right out the window for a good long time. Recently he has started flying again. Today he went on his first cross-country. To say that he was excited at the prospect and buoyant when he returned home is an understatement. What moved me was the thought that he is finally able to fulfill his life-long dream -- especially since he has always supported and encouraged so well the dreams and desires of his loved ones.

Thankful Thursday...

What moved me this week?

As you've heard by now, within a three week period two new souls join the ranks of our family...one in the form of a grandchild and the other a son-in-law. It's difficult to put into words how grateful I am for both of these events. I believe, pure and simple, a child to be God's most precious gift. That has certainly been true in the case of my children and grandchildren. Additionally, my daughters-in-law and sons-in-law are treasured gifts that have abundantly blessed and enriched my life. I am moved by the hearts ability to expand again and again to fully embrace, cherish and love each new family member.

What surprised me this week?

My family didn't play a lot of board games when I was a youngster, so I never became adept at them and in turn never enjoyed them much. Some might say I'm slightly competitive (possibly an understatement) and I rarely, if ever, won these games, so as I said they weren't much "fun" for me. Until now. Several months ago we purchased the board game "Ticket to Ride." It's the first board game I love. What surprised me this week is I beat the socks off my husband practically every time we played the game. And we played it often. I know pride is an undesirable quality in a person. It's unbecoming and rude. Still, victory is sooo sweet! (As my husband suggested, I will try to employ some humility in a few days. Just let me revel in my accomplishments for a time.)

What inspired me this week?

I'm often inspired by my blogging friends. I love reading blogs of all types. I am particularly drawn to blogs that inspire my creative side, but there are a few authors of blogs that I am loyal to that touch the recesses of my soul by their words. Carolynn's blog, A Glowing Ember, is one of those. She is a gifted writer who candidly shares her wisdom, her thoughts, and her views. She constructs stories much like a weaver forges her fabric -- layering her stories with rich colors and designs. She takes such thought and care with each of her posts, that after reading her blog for a little time you feel as if she's a time-honored friend. These last few weeks she's had a rough go of it. One of her beloved pets passed away. What inspired me this week was her comment after telling us of "Bear's" passing. She stated, "In the midst of all the heartbreak and tears, what consistently rises to the surface is a profound sense of gratitude and love." I am inspired by those who can rise above their heartache and show gratitude. What a noble characteristic to possess-- the ability to demonstrate gratitude in the face of sorrow -- so inspiring. Carolynn also shared this beautiful message by Brother David Steindl-Rast. His sentiments in this video are so calming and reassuring. I encourage you to listen...

Thankful Thursday...

What surprised me this week?

I had a nice surprise this week. My daughter, the bride, and I arrived home from Omaha yesterday afternoon after helping with the new grandbaby for a week. I had very little contact with the internet while I was gone. This morning I opened my email and realized I had won a Soirre honey bun from Karen at Badlands Quilts. I squealed with delight. My husband was sitting next to me working on his computer and asked what the commotion was about. I responded that I had won a "honey bun." His eyebrows raised. I guffawed. All around I am one happy lady. Thank you, Karen, for such a wonderful surprise!

What moved me this week?

I had so many lovely moments this last week. There's nothing like a brand new baby to put life into perspective. Even with all the wedding preparations looming in the future and things waiting to get done here at home, nothing seemed more important than attending to that little one. He is an angel -- pure and simple. There were so many sweet tender moments while we were visiting, but the ones that moved me the most were when I caught my daughter mothering her little brood. She is such a kind, sweet mother. She shows so much patience and love toward her little boys. It is such a compelling experience to watch your children as they mother and father their own little ones so beautifully. To the left is a picture of my daughter and her newest little miracle. That picture alone moves me.

What inspired me this week?

I had a number of people respond to my Thankful Thursday post last week about what "inspired" me that week, but I had even more that responded by email. These blogging friends, who I've never met and who I don't know well, were so sweet to agree with my assessment that through God's help we can bear our burdens and endure our trials more easily. They related difficult experiences in their own lives when they felt the strength and encouragement that only the Savior can provide. I just wanted to thank those who shared their very personal thoughts with me. Your reflections and stories inspired me. Testimony truly gives us the eternal perspective necessary to go through and see past the challenges we inevitably face in this life.

Thankful Thursday...

What surprised me this week?

Long before I jumped on the Thankful Thursday bandwagon, I wondered whether it was something to which I wanted to dedicate myself. I had always enjoyed reading the Thankful Thursday posts from friends and relatives who participated in this weekly journal. Their posts were often poignant and sweet, and I appreciated their willingness to share their personal experiences and feelings in a public forum. Still, I wondered if taking part in this weekly gratitude journal was something I wanted to take on, as I knew it would take more time and energy than my other quick posts.

What surprised me this week, was the realization of how much I look forward to writing this post each week. It's not that it has become easier or less time-consuming for me to write. It hasn't. I usually deliberate over what to write about for hours, but that quiet time spent pondering has been a blessing in itself. Examining my life and searching for the blessings evident in it, has made me more aware of all the ways -- both big and small -- we are blessed. It cheers one to spend even a small portion of one's week focusing on these positive thoughts!

What moved me this week?

Our seventh little grandchild, Charlie, was born on Monday, weighing in at 7 lbs. 8 oz.! Much too adorable for words. Moved to tears with gratitude. I'm so grateful for this little one and so thankful that his momma and he are doing well.

What inspired me this week?

I was sitting in Sunday School this week when I had a bit of an epiphany. Many of you have probably experienced this realization, but this subject became more clear to me at that time. The lesson was about overcoming life's trials, tribulations and heartaches. The thought was thrown out that God won’t let us be tempted or tried more than we can handle. I've heard that statement before, and it has always puzzled me. It certainly seems to me that some burdens are simply overwhelming and unbearable. There are certain circumstances where anyone if left on her own, no matter how strong or tenacious she might be, would buckled under the pressure of such grief and suffering. I've known people that have gone through this type of serious heartache and adversity. Without exception those who turned to God, allowed him into their lives, and learned to lean on him seemed to endure their trials with more ease. Not because of their own strength or fortitude or willpower, but because of God's strength, fortitude and willpower. I realized in that moment, that the reason God won't let us be tried more than we can bear, is because He can bear it all. If we allow him to lift our burdens, then we can truly endure anything. It was an inspiring realization.

• Update: I wrote the above post on Monday night, a few days early, because I knew I would be going out of town on Tuesday morning to help my daughter and her family with their new baby. Tuesday morning my youngest daughter, the bride, and I were driving to eastern Nebraska on our way to the new baby's family, when we received a call from my son-in-law. During the night the baby had developed a potentially serious complication. Charlie had spit up bile and his stomach was distended. This occurrence almost always signifies some type of intestinal abnormality or problem that requires surgery. Charlie was transferred to the NICU unit, and Neonatal specialists were called in. Many tests were performed. After all the results of the tests had been gathered, the pediatrician looked my daughter in the eye and called the end result a "miracle." The baby was deemed perfectly healthy. The doctor said there was no scientific explanation for what had occurred. I am so grateful for miracles. I also believe in "tender mercies" from a loving Heavenly Father. I don't believe it was coincidence that I was given the insights in the previous paragraph so shortly before we faced our own trial. I'm grateful for His support and love during the trying times in our lives. I'm also grateful for miracles -- especially this new little miracle in our life.

Thankful Thursday

What inspired me this week?

Last night I was a chaperon for a youth activity for our church. It was a water activity at a lake in town. The kids were skipping across the lake in tubes behind a power boat. I'm fairly certain they were in the air more than on the surface of the lake! The activity began at 6pm and ended when the sun set around 8pm. Sitting there on the edge of that lake watching the sun set behind Longs Peak inspired and rejuvenated me. I've been so busy lately, and it was wonderful to be able to relax, laugh, and be inspired by such a beautiful sight!

What surprised me this week?

I love it when service people arrive on time for appointments made. I know this sounds trivial, but it's a big deal to me. This morning I'm having my carpets cleaned and the young man called an hour before our scheduled appointment to remind me that he would be coming and then he arrived on time. Bless his little heart. I'm pleasantly surprised when this happens!

What moved me this week?

A life well lived. This week I attended the funeral of one of my uncles. He was 89 years old when he passed and had lived a long, full life. As I sat in the congregation listening to the eulogies, I was moved.

There are many measures of "success" in this life. In our very nature is the desire to achieve and to be successful. Success is often measured by power, or popularity, or winning, or achievement. I think we've all measured success at one time or another by the accumulation of wealth. As I listened to those who spoke at my uncle's funeral, I realized what a successful man he truly was. I was, however, measuring success in a way the world usually does not. In his twenties he married and was faithful and true to that same woman for all of his life. This good man raised four children to adulthood and was a father they would choose to emulate. He was a loving and playful grandfather. He never graduated from high school, but he worked hard throughout his life to provide for his family. He was a good friend and neighbor. He studied the scriptures, learned from them, and tried to live his life in accordance with the principles taught therein. He never accumulated much wealth, but he learned that God would provide for those who are faithful. He wasn't prominent or revered, except by his friends and family. He didn't hold multiple degrees from prestigious universities, but he learned wisdom. Much to admire and attempt to emulate. The world might question his "success" in life, but, in my mind, true success is not measured by the definitions of the world.

I am moved by simple lives well lived.

Thankful Thursday... a day early

Wow... a day early! I feel so on-the-ball. Because I am going to start my Hang Up Give-Away tomorrow, I thought I'd post my Thankful Thursday post a day early...

What moved me this week?

My husband. He's such good man. He's the kind of guy that would gladly rearrange his schedule to help a family member, a friend or a stranger. Earlier this week one of our neighbors became ill and was hospitalized. We found out about it a day later when her companion called and asked if I could pick her up from the hospital as she was being released that day. Weeks ago I had scheduled an appointment that morning for my daughter, her fiance' and I to meet with the florist to make arrangements for their wedding. It wasn't possible to change that appointment, so my husband rearranged his schedule and transported our neighbor home. Later that day he picked up our son-in-law at the airport because I was otherwise occupied. Daily he tries to make my life easier by being of service to me, and he often serves friends and strangers with a smile on his face and a happy heart. He moves me with his thoughtfulness.

What surprised me this week?

I'm always surprised by the fact that "stopping and smelling the roses" can be so invigorating and uplifting! I have a dear friend who visits with me about once a month. She usually comes over to my home and we catch up on all the latest in our lives. A couple of weeks ago we planned a luncheon date and we met today at a favorite restaurant of ours. I have felt a little harried lately, trying to plan and arrange all the events and festivities of our daughter's wedding next month. It felt so good to sit and relax and chat with a good friend. I truly think some of life's sweetest blessings come from friendships.

What inspired me this week?

On the 4th of July we had an outing at a lake a few blocks from our home. We packed up the kayak and some breakfast and headed over to the lake. A couple of us rode our bikes over, so those of us who weren't in the kayak could be riding around the lake on the bike trail. It couldn't have been a more beautiful morning. Green grass, purple mountains, blue water -- one of those picture-perfect mornings that makes you glad you're alive. I am inspired by and grateful for the beautiful land we live in!

Thankful Thursday (on friday...)

Typically in my Thankful Thursday posts, I answer three questions that help me focus on blessings that I'm particularly grateful for that week. This week I'm not going to stick with the usual format, because this week has been anything but typical. Three experiences this week made me profoundly grateful. I'll share those with you...

• The first experience happened on Monday afternoon. I was getting ready for a wedding shower that we're going to be having this weekend for my youngest daughter -- doing a little gift wrapping with my radio turned on. Suddenly the news came on with a breaking story about the metro accident in Washington DC. My heart dropped because they mentioned that the accident was on the "red line, " which happens to be one of the lines that one of my daughter-in-laws takes to work daily. I quickly called her to see if she was alright, and she immediately answered her phone. Her sweet voice was music to my ears. My son had picked her up from work that day. I was so grateful that she was alright and so sad for the many others that were not.
  

• Monday evening our eldest son called. As soon as he said, "Hi, Mom?" I knew something was not quite right. He and his wife were in the hospital. Their car had collided with a deer and my daughter-in-law had felt the impact the most. The passenger side windshield, where my DIL was sitting, had been completely shattered and bowed in by the deer. It is a miracle she wasn't seriously hurt. At the time my son called, they were examining my DIL, but aside from a few little cuts on her face and a very sore and bruised body, she has no other side effects. My son and their three children were spared of any injury. Again, I was so grateful.

• Wednesday found us at Denver International Airport, awaiting the arrival of our son. For the last two years he has served a mission for our church in northern California. During that two year period we received weekly emails and letters from him and an occasional scheduled phone call, but we weren't able to visit with him in person. Can you imagine our excitement as we waited for him to deplane? Words can't describe. I'm so grateful that he is home and that he had such a wonderful experience while he was away. His mission was a life-changing experience for him and a blessing for our family. I'm so grateful that he is home, safe and well. (Here's a photo of him with my husband and our daughter.)
  

My gratitude has run the emotional gamut this week. Sometimes gratitude takes on the form of extreme relief for grace given and lives spared. Other times it is an offering of happiness and praise. I've felt all that and more this week.

Thankful Thursday

What moved me this week?

I hope you all have a neighbor (or two or three) that you can count on -- someone who will be there when you are in need (or not). We have several, but the two we feel closest to live across the street from us. A couple of years back Trace Adkins recorded the song, "Find Out Who Your Friends Are." The song chronicles the type of friend we would all like to have (or be). F&J are not your run of the mill neighbors. If we were in need at 2am I wouldn't hesitate to call them, and I know they would be at my door 30 seconds later. It's wonderful to have that kind of friend in a pinch or in an emergency. What's even better is to have that kind of neighbor in your every-day life. Last week my husband and I went out of town. We've done that a lot this year. In fact it seems as if we are habitually going out of town. F&J keep an eye on our house, and, more importantly, watch our cat, Freckles, when we are traveling. I'm so grateful that they make sure Freckles has enough to eat and drink, but being the animal lovers that they are they do more than that. They spend quality time with her while we're gone, giving her attention and love. I'm fairly certain that Freckles looks forward to our departure, just so she can get some tender loving care from our good neighbors. F&J do all this without thought of compensation and with a slight shrug of the shoulder when I thank them. They are such good people. I am moved by my neighbor's good works and their willingness to serve others so cheerfully.

What surprised me this week?

Yesterday I placed an order via email for the invitations for my daughter's wedding. When the printing consultant called me back to review the order, she gave me the cost of the order. To my surprise it was almost two hundred dollars less than I had expected. Oh, how I love surprises!

What inspired me this week?

I've mentioned several times lately that we are in the process of planning our daughter's wedding. While in Idaho this last week I came across another couple, B&J, who is planning a wedding reception for their son. The newlyweds were married several months back at a beautiful wedding in Kentucky. The festivities were held at an exclusive country club next to a beautiful golf course. Apparently, it was an extravagant affair with many luxurious perks. To give you a sampling of the event, as the bride and groom got ready to leave the reception a helicopter swooped down to transport them on the first leg of their honeymoon. Apparently, it was a dazzling wedding and a reception long to be remembered.

B&J don't have the resources or the inclination to host such an ostentatious affair. They live in the country outside a small farming community in northern Idaho. Although they live a modest life, the scenery surrounding their home is anything but plain. Their home is situated on the banks of a huge lake that is surrounded by lush vegetation and pine forests. Against the sky, surrounding the lake is a timbered mountain range comprised of back-country wilderness that stretches to the Canadian border. It is an idyllic setting. B&J have decided, with their son and daughter-in-law's enthusiastic approval, to have the wedding reception in the hay field bordering the lake next to their home. They will set up a beautiful tent, in case of inclement weather, and have several boats parked at the lake for guests to enjoy. They plan on roasting a pig, bales of hay will serve as benches, and wildflowers in mason jars will adorn the tables. Instead of a helicopter as transportation, the bride and groom will arrive in a tractor. I'm certain the newlyweds will have another memorable day.

I love the fact that these two events are so very different, but equally charming. The bride's parents, no doubt, wanted to honor their daughter and future son-in-law with an extravagant flourish that reflected their lifestyle. The groom's family will host an informal, relaxed affair that mirrors their circumstances. Both are wonderful! I am inspired by people's creativity and individuality!